At the end of a conversation with your acquaintances / companions / friends have you ever felt full of energy, enthusiasm, self belief and motivation as against pessimism and bouts of negative energy that makes your head spin ?
Have you ever wondered why some people always manage to leave a positive impression and leave us inspired by their presence and interaction ? What sets them apart from the rest ?
Well this is what helps us in becoming the people we love to interact with:
1: Accommodating: They are always willing to help. They will walk the distance to get you out of any troublesome situation. They will help, when you are in need, but will never invade your privacy or try to be intrusive.
2: Non-Judgmental: They never judge people or think they have the right to criticize someone Else's way of life.
3: Respectful: While being polite and courteous themselves, they also respect other people for who they are and the choices they make for themselves.
4: Appreciative: They are quick to complement every nice thing they notice.
5: Optimistic: They always see the good in any person or situation.
6: Keep Positive Company: In spite of being the most open minded and understanding people, they never fear getting rid of people who repeatedly insist on bringing negativity in their lives, even in the most adverse of their times. They are not afraid to tell negative people to get out of their bubble!
7: Follow the 90-10 Principle: As my Mother often tells me, no Human Being is 100% saintly. 90% of every person is a good human being and 10% of every human being is a Villain. Each one of us has a Villain within us, who at some point or the other, unknowingly emerges without warning. When we accept this truth, it is easier to deal with people and maintain lasting relationships.
Have you observed a quality you would love to adapt, from a person you love to spend time with ? Wish to share it ? Then go ahead and leave a comment ! :)
Have you ever wondered why some people always manage to leave a positive impression and leave us inspired by their presence and interaction ? What sets them apart from the rest ?
Well this is what helps us in becoming the people we love to interact with:
1: Accommodating: They are always willing to help. They will walk the distance to get you out of any troublesome situation. They will help, when you are in need, but will never invade your privacy or try to be intrusive.
2: Non-Judgmental: They never judge people or think they have the right to criticize someone Else's way of life.
3: Respectful: While being polite and courteous themselves, they also respect other people for who they are and the choices they make for themselves.
4: Appreciative: They are quick to complement every nice thing they notice.
5: Optimistic: They always see the good in any person or situation.
6: Keep Positive Company: In spite of being the most open minded and understanding people, they never fear getting rid of people who repeatedly insist on bringing negativity in their lives, even in the most adverse of their times. They are not afraid to tell negative people to get out of their bubble!
7: Follow the 90-10 Principle: As my Mother often tells me, no Human Being is 100% saintly. 90% of every person is a good human being and 10% of every human being is a Villain. Each one of us has a Villain within us, who at some point or the other, unknowingly emerges without warning. When we accept this truth, it is easier to deal with people and maintain lasting relationships.
Have you observed a quality you would love to adapt, from a person you love to spend time with ? Wish to share it ? Then go ahead and leave a comment ! :)
wow!!!!
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Words of wisdom indeed ! Very true.. and yes, nothing rejuvenates me more than a long, heart-to-heart with my loved ones and closest friends!
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